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The self-love series built for exactly where you are — not where you think you should be. Five life stages. Five communities. Because generic self-love advice was never written for your life.
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let's cut to the chase
It assumes you're all at the same place. That the single woman and the new mum need the same thing. That loving yourself looks identical whether you're trying to conceive or trying to find yourself.
It doesn't.
The way you talk to yourself changes. What you need changes. The battles you're fighting change. And yet every book, every programme, every piece of content treats you like you're all the same woman.
Your Self Love Story was built on one truth that changes everything: where you are in life shapes everything about how you love yourself. So we created five books and five 30-day online challenges — one for each chapter of your life.
From Someone Who's Lived Every Chapter
Ell has walked through every stage she writes about. The quiet ache of singlehood. The beautiful mess of falling in love when you're still so far from knowing how to love yourself. The challenges of trying to conceive. The wonder and weight of pregnancy. And the beautiful, exhausting chaos of new motherhood? She's entering that chapter right now.
Through every stage however, she found herself searching for support that understood where she was - and gave her a real way through. It didn't exist. So she wrote the books and built the challenges herself - drawing on six years writing about love and three years coaching thousands of women through it.
"The loneliest I ever felt wasn't when I was single. It was when I was surrounded by people who loved me — and I still couldn't find a way to love and accept myself. It took years of work. But when I finally did, everything shifted — my relationships, my confidence, my whole life. That's what these books and challenges are built to give you." - Ella Sauntson Stearn
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12,000+ women have already found their answer. Now it's your turn. Answer 6 quick questions and get a personalised result that tells you two things: which chapter of Your Self Love Story you're in right now — and the hidden self-love blind spot that's quietly holding you back. It takes less than 2 minutes. The insight lasts a lifetime.
Scenario-based questions designed to reveal what's really going on beneath the surface — not what you think you should say.
Your life stage chapter + your unique self-love blind spot — delivered as a custom report straight to your inbox.
Based on your result, you'll get a personalised recommendation for your book, your community, and your first practice.
✨ No generic advice. No one-size-fits-all. Just you, your story, and exactly what you need to hear right now.
⚡ BONUS: Sign up for the quiz in the next 24 hours and receive our exclusive 'Self Love Starter Kit' with 5 powerful exercises to begin your transformation immediately. (And if you change your mind about the quiz when you see it? You'll still get the Starter Kit—so you walk away with valuable tools either way.)
These aren't just nice words. These are women who decided to start — and never looked back.
Before: Struggling after 8 months of trying. After: Found peace in herself while continuing her journey.
"I was measuring my worth by a pregnancy test result every single month. The 30 Day Challenge was the first thing that reminded me I was still whole - regardless of the outcome. I cried a lot in the first week. Then I felt something I hadn't felt in months: relief."
Before: Defined by her relationship status. After: The most confident she's ever felt.
"I genuinely felt like I had to wait for 'the one' to feel complete. I was 35, single, and quietly ashamed of it. This challenge didn't just change my mindset - it changed how I walk into a room. I stopped waiting for someone to choose me. I chose myself."
Before: Felt invisible behind her bump. After: Reconnected with who she is beyond motherhood.
"Pregnancy is supposed to be magical, but I'd completely lost myself in it. The challenge gave me permission to still be Emily - with my own needs, my own identity, my own story. It's been incredible and I can't wait for the book."
Built, Tested, and Ready for You
The 30-Day Challenges are where real, lasting transformation happens — not through willpower, but through daily practice, expert guidance, and a community that holds you accountable every step of the way. Built on three years of coaching and refined with feedback from 12,000+ women, every session and every practice has been tested until it works.All five challenges launch in May 2026. The books follow from September 2026 — and they'll be worth the wait.
✔ Daily guided practices + lessons (10–20 mins)
✔ Downloadable daily workbooks to turn "reading" into "doing"
✔ Accountability check-ins - to keep you showing up for yourself
✔ Private community with women at your exact life stage
✔ A personalised action plan - so you always know your next step
✔ Lifetime access - revisit whenever you need it
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The most transformative relationship you'll ever have is the one you build with yourself. Not someday. Not when life settles down. Not when you finally feel ready. Right now. Exactly as you are. Exactly where you are.
Your chapter is waiting. And so is the version of you who's finally done waiting.