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Self Love Coaching For Women

Transform Your Life with Strategic Self-Love Coaching

Looking for affordable, transformative self love coaching that actually works? Ready to become the happiest, healthiest, most authentic version of yourself and build the relationship you've always dreamed about?

Then hey - you've found EXACTLY what you've been searching for... 🏆

With a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee (+ 100% client satisfaction rate to date!), our Signature Self love Coaching Programme GUARANTEES to get you feeling how you want to feel in yourself, within 18 months or less.

And I know, I know, that sounds like a big promise to make. But hear us out here. Allow us to explain...

Why Strategic Self-Love Coaching Gets You There Faster

Here's the thing about transformation: it's not just about wanting to change. It's about having someone who knows exactly how to interrupt the patterns keeping you stuck, who can spot the invisible beliefs running the show, and who has the psychological tools to help you rewire them—fast.

That's where strategic intervention coaching comes in, and it's why self love coaching isn't just helpful; it's utterly transformational.

âś” Evidence-Based Breakthroughs

Combining Strategic Intervention Coaching with CBT and proven psychological frameworks, means we're not just talking about your feelings—we're actively restructuring the thought patterns that create them. These strategies are the gold standard for lasting change because they target the root, not just the symptoms. You'll learn to catch the self-sabotaging thoughts before they derail you, replace them with empowering alternatives, and actually feel the difference in your body and relationships within weeks, that can go on to last years.

âś” Accountability That Actually Works

When you're working alone, it's easy to let yourself off the hook, to slip back into old patterns when things get uncomfortable. But with coaching, you've got someone in your corner who sees your potential even when you can't, who holds you lovingly accountable to the woman you're becoming. We celebrate the wins you'd normally dismiss and challenge the excuses that keep you small—because sometimes the most loving thing someone can do is refuse to let you abandon yourself.

âś” Practical Tools, Not Just Theory

You'll walk away from every session with concrete strategies you can use immediately—whether that's a reframe for your inner critic, a boundary script for that difficult conversation, or a somatic practice to calm your nervous system when anxiety strikes. This isn't abstract self-help; it's a practical toolkit for becoming the version of yourself who doesn't just survive relationships and challenges, but thrives in them, unapologetically taking up space and asking for what you need.

Ready To Feel Like You Again?

Because hey - here's just a few of the challenges you might be facing if you're battling low self esteem and a lack of self love:

The Inner Battle:

  • Constant comparison—scrolling through feeds, measuring your worth against filtered perfection.

  • That critical voice in your head that never seems to quiet, picking apart your every choice.

  • Feeling like an imposter in your own life, waiting to be "found out."

  • Setting impossible standards, then punishing yourself when you inevitably fall short.

  • A quiet feeling of not quite being enough, even when you've achieved so much.

  • Feeling unworthy of rest, success, or simply taking up space.

The Relationship Ripple Effect

  • Staying silent about your needs, terrified that speaking up will push people away.

  • Tolerating behaviour that doesn't serve you because you don't believe you deserve better.

  • Seeking constant validation from partners, friends, or family to feel worthy.

  • Self-sabotaging connections when things get too good—because deep down, you don't trust you're loveable.

  • Struggling with intimacy and vulnerability, keeping walls up even with those closest to you.

  • Attracting relationships that mirror your own self-doubt and criticism.

Unlock Unshakeable Self-Worth

Download Your Free Self-Love Digital Toolkit

Discover the 5 Secrets to Unshakeable Self-Worth

Receive a sample of my coaching style first hand! Access the exact framework that's helped hundreds of women break free from self-doubt and build authentic confidence. In this exclusive digital toolkit, you'll uncover the psychological patterns keeping you stuck and the proven strategies to rewire them—fast, all available in an instant download.

What You'll Discover:

  • The #1 invisible belief sabotaging your relationships & stealing your joy.

  • Why willpower alone never works + what does. Spoiler: You'll unlock powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques for effortless change!

  • 3-step method to silence your inner critic & reclaim your mental peace.

  • How to ACTUALLY break deep-rooted cycles in 30 days.

  • The nervous system secret to lasting transformation, for profound and permanent self-love.

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Self Love Coaching For Low Self Esteem

The Transformation You Deserve

Imagine waking up and actually liking the woman looking back at you in the mirror. Picture yourself in relationships where you're not constantly second-guessing, where you can be vulnerable without fear of rejection, where you're chosen because of who you authentically are—not who you've contorted yourself to be. Envision walking into rooms without that familiar knot of anxiety, speaking your truth without rehearsing it seventeen times first, and setting boundaries that feel loving rather than guilty.

This isn't fantasy. It's what happens when you stop trying to think your way out of patterns that live in your nervous system and start working with someone who knows how to create sustainable, psychological shifts.

Self-love coaching isn't indulgent; it's essential. Because every day you spend disconnected from your worth, you're not just missing out on your own life—you're teaching everyone around you how little you believe you matter.

And sweetie, you matter so much more than you've allowed yourself to believe.

Specialist Self Love Coaching

let's cut to the chase

What's Holding You Back?

See, the chances are - you know something needs to change. You've read the books, saved the Instagram quotes, promised yourself "tomorrow will be different." Yet here you are—still stuck in the same patterns, still feeling the same fear, still wondering why change feels so impossible. The thing is:

The Familiar Feels Safer

Your negative self-talk, however painful, is predictable. Change means stepping into the unknown—and your brain equates unknown with unsafe. Even growth can feel terrifying when you've lived with insecurity for so long.

Vulnerability Feels Like Risk

Opening up means potentially being hurt again. So you build walls, keep people at arm's length, and wonder why intimacy feels impossible. The very thing you crave most—genuine connection—requires the very thing you fear most: being truly seen.

You Don't Feel Worth the Investment

This is the cruelest irony: the lack of self-love that makes you need support is the same voice telling you that you don't deserve it. Spending money on yourself feels selfish. Prioritising your healing feels indulgent.

The Cycle That Keeps You Stuck

Understanding why you're caught in repetitive patterns is the first step towards genuine transformation. When self-love runs low, a powerful cycle takes hold—one that affects every area of your life, from career decisions to relationships, from self-care to simple daily choices.

  • The Trigger: Self-doubt despite having a loving partner - questioning why they love you, waiting for them to realize you're "not good enough." If single: believing "no-one wants you" or you're "broken."

  • The Spiral: Self-sabotaging behaviors - pushing them away, creating problems to test their love, or withdrawing emotionally. If single: accepting breadcrumbs, chasing emotionally-unavailable people, staying in situationships because to avoid being alone.

  • The Confirmation: Your behaviors create the problems you feared - confusion, distance, conflicts from defensive reactions. If single: attracting more toxic or disappointing relationships, reinforcing that this is all you deserve.

  • The Block: You recognize you're sabotaging something good, but that voice whispers "What if they leave when they see how much work you need? What if I do all this & it's not enough?" If single: "What if I demand more and end up with nothing?"

You resolve to change. But change requires vulnerability, risk, and investment in yourself. Your wounded self-worth whispers: "What if you fail? What if you're beyond help? What if this is just who you are?" And so you stay stuck. Not because you're weak or broken (you're actually NOT!), but because the very barriers you need to overcome are the ones making it difficult to take action. You're not lacking willpower. You're battling a self-fulfilling prophecy that's been reinforced for years.

The truth? You can't think your way out of this. You need support, guidance and someone who sees your worth even when you can't, someone who pulls you out of this and lifts you higher than you've ever felt before.

This Isn't About Trying Harder...

Breaking this cycle isn't about trying harder or thinking differently on your own. It's about having someone in your corner who recognises your inherent value—even when you can't see it yourself. Someone who understands these patterns, knows how to interrupt them, and can guide you towards a life where self-love isn't just a concept, but a lived reality.

The woman you're meant to become is waiting on the other side of this decision. She's confident, self-assured, and knows her worth. She makes choices from a place of self-love rather than self-doubt. And she's closer than you think...

meet your coach

Hi, I'm Ell,

I'm the Founder of Forgetting Fairytales and a Strategic Intervention Coach specialising in self-love. This is my life purpose, my pure passion.

After experiencing a pretty rocky relationship history (to say the very least!), I finally discovered that self-love was the real key to healing your heart, no longer tolerating things you don't deserve, no longer making the same painful mistakes (that you keep beating yourself up for), and ultimately building happy, healthy, life-long relationships with both yourself and others.

I know this is a bold statement but I wouldn't make it if I hadn't lived it myself and witnessed hundreds of other women transform their lives through this work.

let's break it down

My Self Love Coaching Process

When it comes to self-love coaching, I like to do things a little differently. After years of working with incredible women like you, I've discovered what truly creates lasting change—and what simply doesn't work. That's why I've designed the ultimate bespoke coaching experience, combining strategic coaching, unwavering support and accountability to help you build the deep, authentic self-love you deserve. This isn't about quick fixes or surface-level changes. It's about genuine transformation that touches every area of your life—whilst homing in specifically on the things you most want and need.

Ready to discover how? Let me walk you through my proven four-step process...

no risk, no cost, no pressure

Step 1) Begin Your Journey

Taking the first step is always the most courageous. Feeling nervous?Unsure? Then you can start by scheduling a FREE Discovery Call—a relaxed, no-pressure conversation where we'll explore your goals and see if we're the perfect fit. There's absolutely no obligation, just an opportunity to ask questions, share your story, and envision what's possible for you.

Step 2) Establish Your Vision & Goals

Next, you'll complete a thoughtful assessment designed to help us understand your unique journey. This isn't a test—it's a beautiful process of self-discovery. Share as much or as little as feels comfortable. Your responses help me craft a completely personalised coaching plan whilst giving you profound clarity on where you are now and where you'd love to be.

Step 3) Start Your Self Love Coaching Plan - With 6 Months 1:1 Support

This is where the magic happens. Your bespoke six-month programme includes monthly 60-minute one-to-one coaching sessions, personalised action steps, and curated resources—all accessible through your private Self-Love Portal. Between sessions, I'm here for you with optional check-ins and messages, because lasting change happens in the everyday moments, not solely when we're already scheduled to speak.

You'll gain a lot during these 6 months - be sure to see the full list below. But it's important and needed.

Step 4) Your Sustainable Success Plan

As your programme concludes, we'll create a comprehensive 12-month action plan to ensure your transformation continues long after our work together. You'll also receive premium access to our Self-Love Community and two 30-minute check-in calls at six-month intervals. You're never alone on this journey—I'm committed to your continued growth and success.

the nitty gritty

What's Included

As part of this life-changing experience, you'll receive:

✔️ Self Love Assessment

This powerful diagnostic tool allows us to craft the most bespoke self love plan specifically for you, whilst serving as a profound catalyst for self-discovery. You'll gain absolute clarity on where you're starting from, understand exactly how you feel about yourself right now, and define your ultimate self love vision—the confident, radiant woman you're destined to become. This isn't just a questionnaire; it's your roadmap to transformation.

✔️ 6 Month Guided Self Love Coaching Programme

Your personalised roadmap to becoming your most confident self will be reviewed regularly and expertly adjusted where needed, ensuring it evolves perfectly alongside your unique personal journey. This adaptive approach means you're never stuck following a rigid plan—instead, your programme flexes and grows with you, celebrating every win and navigating every challenge with strategic precision tailored to your individual needs and circumstances.

✔️ 6x 60 Minute Strategic Coaching Calls

Experience the transformative power of dedicated one-to-one time directly with your own personal Self Love Coach who is completely invested in your success. These aren't ordinary coaching sessions—they're deep-dive strategic conversations where you'll receive expert guidance, breakthrough insights, and personalised strategies that address your specific blocks and accelerate your progress. Each call is a powerful catalyst for change, leaving you energised, clear, and ready to take action.

✔️ Monthly Custom On-Demand Coaching Material

Gain unlimited access to bespoke coaching content you can log onto and revisit again and again, created specifically for your unique situation and challenges. This exclusive material works tirelessly to support you between each monthly call, providing exactly what you need, precisely when you need it. It's like having your coach available 24/7, with personalised guidance that speaks directly to your journey and keeps momentum flowing effortlessly.

✔️ Exercise & Resource Library

You'll receive a comprehensive treasure trove of complementary worksheets, beautiful printables, transformative audio files, and engaging video content—all expertly designed and yours to download instantly as part of your coaching programme. These professional-grade resources provide hands-on tools to deepen your practice, reinforce key concepts, and create lasting change. Consider this your personal self love toolkit, available whenever inspiration strikes or support is needed.

✔️6 Month WhatsApp Message Support

Uh huh, we're just a message away whenever you need us—whether you find yourself slipping back into old behaviours you're determined to break or struggling to implement the changes you're working towards. This isn't impersonal email support; it's real-time compassionate guidance when you need it most. Expect genuine love, consistent kindness, and heartfelt encouragement every single step of the way, making you feel truly supported and never alone on this journey.

✔️Custom 12 Month Self Love Plan (worth $395)

This premium strategic roadmap guides you through exactly what to do and precisely how to do it, step by step, month by month, to sustain and deepen the incredible changes you want to see—long after our core six months of private coaching has beautifully concluded. This isn't generic advice; it's your personalised blueprint for lasting transformation that ensures your self love journey continues to flourish independently.

✔️ 18 Month Tracking System

Benefit from our sophisticated tracking system with optional gentle reminders and meaningful check-ins designed to keep you consistently on track until your new empowering habits and behaviours become completely natural and effortless. (Uh huh, we don't do things by halves!) This extended support ensures your transformation becomes permanent, not temporary—because lasting change deserves lasting support that goes the distance with you.

+ Lifetime Community Access

Plus of course, you'll receive lifetime FREE access to our exclusive self love community, connecting you with inspiring like-minded women working on exactly the same transformational goals as you. This isn't just another Facebook group—it's a safe, supportive sisterhood where you can ask vulnerable questions, share authentic experiences, celebrate wins together, and hold each other lovingly accountable. The connections you'll make here are priceless and lifelong.

This comprehensive programme represents extraordinary value and unwavering commitment to your transformation. Everything has been thoughtfully designed to ensure you not only achieve your self love goals but sustain them for life. You deserve this level of dedicated support, and we're honoured to walk this powerful journey alongside you.

Learn More - Schedule a Free Discovery Call 📞

There's NO cost, NO risk, nothing to lose and absolutely NO pressure. It's simply a 15 minute conversation, answering any questions you may have and pointing you in the right direction. Save yourself the "what if's" & speak to the team today!

Do I need a Self Love Coach? Self Love Coaching Explained

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Who Self Love Coaching Is For

Now it's important to note that you don't have to be in the worst place in the world, to need or greatly benefit from, self love coaching.

Self love coaching is for women who strive, not settle - strive to be the best versions of themselves, strive to do the best in life, strive to build the happiest, healthiest relationships; or simply strive for inner peace & happiness.

You may sign up for self love coaching if you're:

  • Committed to self improvement.

  • Want to be the happiest, healthiest version of you.

  • Are navigating life transitions. (Like the end of a relationship, or the start of a new stage of one.)

  • Experiencing emotional challenges / keep being triggered.

  • Have reached a cross-road; you don't know what to do.

  • Want to create change in your life. (Perhaps you've been single for a while & nothing seems to be working, or you've been stuck in an unfulfilling spot in your marriage... Well it's time to become UNSTUCK!)

See If Self Love Coaching Is ACTUALLY For You...

Feeling unsure? Then allow us to break it down.

Frequently Asked Questions

You’ve got questions. We’ve got answers.

What if I'm not ready to change?

Here's a truth: you're never going to feel "completely ready." There's never a "perfect time." The fact that you're reading this page means part of you is ready you just need support to take the leap. And that's exactly what I provide. We work at your pace, respecting your boundaries whilst gently pushing you toward growth.

What if I fail or give up?

That's precisely why accountability is built into the programme. You have me and my team checking in, supporting you, encouraging you, and keeping you on track. You're not doing this alone. Even when it gets difficult (and it might), we're there to ensure you don't give up on yourself. That's what makes coaching effective when self-help books aren't.

What if it doesn't work for me?

This fear is completely understandable you've probably tried things before that didn't work. But here's the difference: this programme has a 100% satisfaction rate over 5+ years. Not 95%. Not 99%. 100%. Plus, you're protected by a comprehensive money-back guarantee. The only way it doesn't work is if you don't actually do the work and I'll be there holding you accountable every step of the way.

Can't I just sign up for one coaching call?

True self-love isn't a quick fix, which is why we don't offer individual sessions. For specific questions, our Self Love Community is available. We also offer a lower-cost Self Love Strategy Plan for comprehensive guidance without the full commitment. Still unsure? Book your FREE discovery call.

What if I can't afford it right now?

We understand financial concerns deeply. But consider: can you afford to continue living this way? Another year of anxiety? Another relationship sabotaged? The payment plan exists precisely for this reason - just $375 monthly, less than many people spend on shopping, dining out, or other temporary comforts. This is an investment that pays returns for your entire life.

What currency can I pay in?

We accept payment in USD ($) as our standard currency. However, if you're based outside the USA, don't worry—currency conversion happens automatically based on your location. It's completely seamless. For alternative payment methods or questions about pricing, get in touch. We're transparent from the start.

Do you operate worldwide?

Absolutely. Geography doesn't limit transformation. We're proud to work with clients globally, because self-love work transcends borders. What matters is your commitment to growth, not your postcode. We deliver proven results to anyone, anywhere, making our services accessible to all who seek genuine change.

How much time will this take up every month?

As much or as little as suits you. The minimum commitment is one 60-minute monthly coaching call, plus recommended tasks. Life happens—we're flexible if you need to adjust. Want to dive deeper? We provide extensive reading materials, habit-building tools, and resources. The more you immerse yourself, the more profound your transformation will be.

How soon can I start coaching?

If enrolment is open (which it is right now), we can begin immediately—even as soon as tomorrow. Need to delay your start date? No problem. Secure your place now, and we'll schedule your official programme start for whenever suits you best. Your spot will be guaranteed without any waitlists or delays.

Forgetting any final "what ifs"...

Our Satisfaction Guarantee

We get that times are tough. You don't want to risk signing up if you're not sure this will be worth it. But that's why we add in a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee, PLUS: a Money-Back Guarantee on the remainder of your programme. That's right - if you felt like your first self love coaching call DIDN'T meet your expectations or needs, let us know within 24 hours and we'll offer you an additional coaching call - COMPLETELY FREE OF CHARGE. PLUS: a FULL REFUND on the rest of your programme.

(Please Note: I'm proud to say that we have a 100% satisfaction rate to date, after over half a decade of coaching. But this is here to provide a little extra peace of mind.)

oh, and think about this...

The True Cost Comparison: Coaching vs. Continuing As You Are

Let's do some honest maths about what this decision really costs4both ways. I want you to make an informed choice, understanding not just what you're investing in, but what you're investing to avoid.

Cost of Continuing Without Coaching:

  • Failed relationships: Emotional devastation, potential divorce costs ($15,000-$30,000 average), moving expenses, rebuilding life.

  • Ongoing therapy: $100-250 per session Ă— 52 weeks = $5,200-13,000 annually (often for years.)

  • Self-medication: Shopping, drinking, comfort eating4easily $200-500+ monthly = $2,400-6,000 annually.

  • Lost opportunities: Relationships not pursued, connections not made, life not fully lived. Priceless.

  • Health impacts: Stress-related illness, anxiety medication, decreased quality of life.

  • Time lost: Years spent struggling with the same issues = Irreplaceable.

Estimated annual cost: $10,000-50,000+

Investment in Self-Love Coaching:

  • Complete programme: $2,250 total (or $375/month Ă— 6)

  • Custom strategic plan: Specifically designed for your situation

  • 6 months intensive coaching: 60-minute sessions + ongoing support

  • 12-month action plan: Valued at $395, included free

  • Lifetime community access: Ongoing support and connection

  • Results guaranteed: 100% satisfaction rate, money-back guarantee

  • Permanent transformation: Changes that last a lifetime

Total investment: $2,250 (one-time)

Self Love Coaching | transformational self love coach for women

  • $2,250 or 6 monthly payments of $375

Ready to Write the Most Exciting Chapter of Your Self-Love Story?

So what are you waiting for?

Sign up for our Signature Self Love Coaching Programme, and commit to writing the most exciting & transformational chapter of your self love story so far...

It’s our most complete, results-guaranteed self love coaching offering, and - remember - with a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee there’s NO RISK, absolutely NOTHING TO LOSE.

You deserve this. You deserve this. You've always deserved this. It's time to finally give yourself the gift of genuine self-love, transformation, and lasting happiness. Sign up now...